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Gottman Method Couples Therapy at Forward Mind Counselling

The Gottman Method is a research-based approach to couples counselling that helps partners build stronger relationships, manage conflict, and increase intimacy. At Forward Mind Counselling, we offer Gottman Method Couples Therapy in Surrey for couples seeking to enhance communication, resolve ongoing issues, and reconnect on a deeper level.

This structured, practical therapy provides couples with the tools to break harmful cycles and build lasting partnership skills.

What is the Gottman Method?

Developed through decades of research on successful and struggling relationships, the Gottman Method emphasizes building a strong “friendship system” between partners while directly addressing conflicts.

The goal is not only to resolve current issues but to create a foundation of trust, respect, and shared meaning that supports the relationship.

How the Gottman Method Couples Therapy Works

The Gottman Method uses structured assessments and practical exercises to help couples understand their relationship dynamics and strengthen their connection.

In sessions, couples will practice communication techniques, resolve conflicts, and build trust using guided activities that:

Identify patterns of conflict and communication breakdowns
Learn techniques to de-escalate arguments before they spiral
Strengthen friendship and emotional connection

Build skills for expressing needs and listening effectively
Develop strategies to manage differences respectfully
Create shared goals and values to support long-term connection

What the Gottman Method Can Help With

This method is effective for couples at all stages of their relationship. At Forward Mind Counselling, we use the Gottman Method to help couples address:

Recurring Arguments

Breaking cycles of conflict with new communication tools involves learning to identify triggers, express needs effectively, and listen actively. By adopting healthier ways to address disagreements, couples can transform repetitive fights into opportunities for understanding and growth.

Emotional Distance

Rebuilding closeness and connection requires creating space for vulnerability and fostering meaningful interactions. Through intentional efforts like spending quality time together, sharing emotions openly, and prioritizing affection, couples can bridge the gap that separates them emotionally.

Trust Issues

Repairing relationships after betrayal or disconnection is a delicate process that involves accountability, transparency, and patience. By rebuilding trust step-by-step and addressing underlying wounds, partners can restore safety and strengthen their bond over time.

Parenting Stress

Learning to work as a team while raising children helps reduce tension and align parenting approaches. By establishing clear roles, setting shared goals, and supporting one another through challenges, couples can navigate parenthood with greater harmony and resilience.

Life Transitions

Adjusting to changes such as marriage, career shifts, or retirement requires adaptability and open communication. Navigating these transitions together allows couples to support each other, manage expectations, and embrace new phases of life with unity and understanding.

What to Expect in Gottman Method Couples Therapy

Sessions typically begin with a structured assessment where each partner shares their perspective. From there, your counsellor guides you through exercises to improve communication and strengthen your connection.

You and your partner will learn specific techniques during sessions and take them home to integrate into your daily routine. Progress is measured by improved understanding, reduced conflict, and a stronger sense of partnership.

Getting Started with the Gottman Method

Couples therapy is not just about solving problems; it’s about building skills that keep your relationship strong over time. Many couples utilizing the Gottman Method experience improved communication, renewed intimacy, and a clearer vision for their future together.

If you and your partner are ready to strengthen your relationship, contact Forward Mind Counselling to book a Gottman Method Couples Therapy session in Surrey. We provide both in-person and online appointments.

Gottman Method Couples Therapy Surrey